Life Is Precious Just Live It!

 

Life Is Precious Just Live It!

After the prolonged struggle with deadly pandemic, when life is stepping back to normal, it’s quite disheartening to get the news of young aspirants ending their precious lives just out of some fear of failures in particular exams. This is not a new trend. Every now and then we come across such saddening and grieving pictures from the belt of young generations. Sometimes out of fear of failure or sometimes after the result, not only kids but people from every walk of lives tend to take these drastic steps once they fail to achieve the desired result or desired outcome.

Why people especially young generation get so much afraid of some failures that they don’t even give second thought before taking such steps. Does failure matter? We can apprehend the magnitude of impact of failures on young minds if we look at National Crime Records Bureau Report 2018 which says that out of total suicide committed by children in 2018- Failure in examinations accounted for 2 percent of student suicides, with 1,529 students below the age of 18 and 1,034 between the ages of 18 and 30 and 53 students from the ages of 30 to 45 years having ended their lives.

If we look at the above data – we have to believe that failure does matter. But why? If we look at our society, our surroundings and our upbringings, we will get the answer of this big WHY.  We as a society, as a family tend to ingrain in little young minds that pass and fail are the only two parameters to measure the success in life. When our children score good, we tend to flaunt it in front of everyone and when our kids score little less or fail to fare well as per our expectations, we, instead of praising their efforts, instead of caressing them, tend to scold them, make them feel ashamed of their performance. Primarily, this very attitude of ours, leads our little ones to take these sorts of life-threatening step, our irresponsible behavior only makes them believe that if you are failed you are finished, you will be laughed at, sneered at in your family, in your society, among your friends.

 Are not we as a society responsible for this destruction of young lives?

Pass and fail are not the only determinants of success. Strong effort, strong passion, strong will and perseverance count and matter more than just pass and fail in life. The young brains should realise that Life doesn’t end at one pass or one fail. Life has countless challenges. Life is not just a sprint on a single track. It’s infact a relay race. It gives you lot of opportunities to win and get success. To avail those opportunities, you need to keep your winning spirit alive. You need to keep your passion always ignited. Your Perseverance, your passion and your winning spirit are the only determinants which makes you a winner or a looser.

Failure Is Not And End. Rather It’s Another Beginning. It makes you realize, recognize and analyze what you missed in your endeavor, it helps you make improvements, learn new lessons, develop new strategies and fight further with more vigour and valour to achieve your dreams.

Don’t let your dreams die. Keep your winning spirit always alive and high. You will definitely touch your sky.

“girte hain shehsawar hi maidan – e – jung mein

vo tifl kya gire jo gutno ke bal chale”

We need to help the young brains understand that we fail only when we lose that winning spirit, when we let our efforts die. We always need to help them believe in their efforts, their strengths and appreciate them continuously for their every every effort. Then only we can save our young generation, our near ones and help them carve a better future not just for themselves but also for the nation.

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